IT Infra & DBA Strategy: Adopt Every DB Tech, or Curate What Fits?

The database world is exploding with options—but “one size fits all” thinking is long dead. This article explores how enterprises can curate the right-fit databases, balance managed vs self-managed trade-offs, and control costs with FinOps discipline.

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IT Infra & DBA Strategy: Adopt Every DB Tech, or Curate What Fits?

This article is the extended version of my LinkedIn post.


The database landscape has never been more crowded. Relational, document, key-value, graph, time-series, vector, serverless, and fully managed cloud databases are all competing for attention. Every vendor claims their engine is the “answer” to enterprise needs.

But let’s be honest: the real question is no longer “Can we use it?” but “Where does it fit—and what will it cost to run well?”

The era of “one size fits all” databases ended long ago. Modern enterprises increasingly run polyglot persistence—using multiple database types to match different workload patterns. The shift isn’t about chasing novelty; it’s about ensuring the right fit for performance, resilience, and cost.


The Promise and Trade-Offs of Cloud Databases

Cloud-managed database services have changed the game. Platforms like Amazon RDS, Google Cloud SQL, or Azure Database offer:

  • Auto-patching and backups that reduce operational toil.
  • Built-in HA and DR patterns that once required weeks of engineering.
  • Faster provisioning that enables development teams to experiment and scale without long lead times.

For DBAs and InfraOps teams, this means less “undifferentiated heavy lifting” and more time to focus on optimization and governance. Surveys show that organizations adopting managed services often report lower unplanned downtime and higher efficiency across infrastructure and labor costs.

Yet, managed doesn’t mean free. With cloud databases, enterprises must weigh the convenience of outsourcing operations against the loss of granular control and the potential for spiraling consumption costs.


A Practical Fit Test Before Adding Any Database Engine

Before approving yet another DB engine, leaders and architects should pause and run a quick Fit Test:

  1. Workload fit. Is the use case OLTP, analytics, streaming, or multi-model? Not every engine shines in every scenario.
  2. Consistency and geo requirements. Do you need strong global transactions or is local eventual consistency acceptable? (Think Spanner-style trade-offs.)
  3. Ops effort vs control. Managed services mean less toil but limited customization. Self-managed gives more tuning flexibility but requires skilled ops.
  4. Cost model. Consider license vs consumption, scaling curves, commitments, and whether chargeback is possible across teams.
  5. Skills & ecosystem. Is there enough in-house talent? Are tools and migration paths mature? Postgres vs MySQL debates often come down to ecosystem comfort, not just features.

This Fit Test forces a pause between shiny new tech and responsible adoption.


Cost-Conscious Moves That Matter

Database sprawl isn’t just a technical burden—it’s a financial one. Every engine added means additional licensing, infra, and operations labor. Leaders can keep costs in check by:

  • Modeling total cost. Go beyond license fees. Include infra, ops labor, and even egress charges.
  • Right-sizing and automating scaling. Avoid the trap of “always-on overprovisioning.” Idle databases drain budgets silently.
  • Exposing shared DB spend. Use FinOps practices to allocate costs to application owners. Nothing sharpens decision-making like transparent chargeback.

As one FinOps practitioner once said: “You can’t manage what you don’t measure.”


Stories from the Field

In one enterprise I observed, engineering teams had spun up five different database types in under two years—each tied to a new product initiative. The result? Massive operational overhead, fragmented monitoring, and ballooning license fees. Only after leadership enforced a review board did the company rationalize engines down to three core platforms, saving millions in licensing and streamlining support.

On the other hand, I’ve seen organizations hesitant to embrace managed cloud databases because of perceived costs. Ironically, their self-managed clusters consumed even more in hidden labor costs and unplanned outages. In one case, moving to RDS reduced incident remediation time by 30% and gave DBAs space to focus on performance tuning.

The lesson: cost and value must be viewed holistically, not in isolation.


Closing Reflection

As IT leaders, our job isn’t to chase every new database trend—or to resist change out of habit. The challenge is curating fewer, better-fit, cost-aware choices that balance innovation with sustainability.

The next time a shiny DB engine comes across your desk, ask yourself:

  • Does this fit our workload?
  • Do we have the talent to run it well?
  • Will the value outweigh the long-term cost and complexity?

Because at the end of the day, every database decision is not just a technical choice—it’s a leadership choice.


📑 References: Stonebraker & Çetintemel – “One Size Fits All…”; Martin Fowler – Polyglot Persistence; Gartner – Magic Quadrant for Cloud DBMS (2024); Corbett et al. – Spanner OSDI; AWS – Well-Architected Cost Optimization; FinOps Foundation; IDC – Business Value of Amazon RDS; Bytebase – Postgres vs MySQL Comparison (2025).